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Was I in the wrong for how I responded to my wife’s flirting?

I (40M) have been married to my wife (39F) for almost 10 years, and we have two kids. Last weekend, she asked if she could go to a coworker’s birthday party on Saturday. I said, “Of course.” The kids and I watched a movie, played video games, and ordered pizza. She came home really late and drunk. While I was helping her get ready for bed, she started talking about how she had been flirting with a 25-year-old guy and how she “still got it.” I laughed and said, “Okay, drunk lady! Time for bed.”

The next morning, she told me the story again and even said she almost went home with him. I’m not the jealous type, so I just laughed. But she got upset and asked, “Why aren’t you jealous? Do you think I’m too old or unattractive for anyone to want me?” I said, “No! You’re beautiful and could be with anyone you want! I just know you—you’re loyal! You’re not a cheater! Look at you, you came home to me and even told me about the flirting, which sounds like it was just harmless fun.”

She didn’t like my answer and has been distant ever since. I’ve asked her a few times what I did wrong, but she won’t say anything. Even the kids have noticed she’s acting cold toward me. Did I handle this the wrong way? AITA #aita

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